Monthly Archives: November 2017

Disappointed much?

So check it out-

I wrote a post on social media recently about folks who are so uber sensitive, that the minute they feel criticized- earned or not, they fall apart.

My little millennial friend, read that post, and immediately asked me to write a blog and go more in-depth.

So here goes- unless you are experiencing serious mental illness shrouded in severe anxiety, being criticized, should in no way, make you crumble to dust.

Aside from the impossibility that everyone will agree with you, criticism, can and should be beneficial to your growth in some small way. Not everyone is a “hater” and it behooves you to distinguish between lessons and hatefulness.

I swear this phenomenon of people crumbling, came from not being taught critical thinking skills and having every problem solved as a child.

What emerges, is an adult, who never wants to be disagreed with and also wants the discussion coached in flowers and honey.

Hello.

Real world does NOT operate as such. If you are bringing all your thoughts, feelings and values, chances are high, (read yes) that the person/s you are speaking with does too.

Take some time to breathe, ask yourself questions such as, “why am l so offended?” Or “what am l to learn from this?”

Emotion has a valuable place in our lives but it should never be allowed to overrule our logic. That is a recipe for being overly sensitive and no growth takes place in that mushroom of tears and bellyaching.

Buckle up. Lift that chin. Feel the angst, work it through either alone, or with solid advice, and move on.

Because life, has zero issues with moving on without you.

Peace and mad love,

Diva

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