Hope springs eternal love..
My divamobile was in the shop being winterized recently and when it was completed, the mechanic sent his nephew to drop it off at my home which is such a sweet thing he does without my ever asking for such a service.
So as I go to jump in the car and take his nephew back, he ( nephew)began engaging me in conversation- first about seemingly small talk but out of nowhere he started talking about this woman he only began dating a month ago that he met 12 years earlier. They were into each other then but life happened and they ended up not becoming a couple and they both got married and divorced. Neither one of them had children. One more thing- he’s Vietnamese and she is Caucasian.
Don’t ask me why he shared so openly, but am I glad he did!
He was trying to put his finger on why he was so over the top about this lady after not ever really feeling this way about anyone in his life.
I mean, he could NOT stop. He spoke of how easy going she was, non Judgmental, smart, had a great job, no kids, divorced and she made him giddy with joy.
With the tiniest bit of prodding, it came out that she was happy to do the simplest things with him like taking long car rides, impromptu fishing on their way home and they didn’t have to do anything fancy for her to have fun.
I smiled listening to him because I could tell he found a gem. When he said he just purchased a brand new car and when she said it was cute, he took her car and gave her his to drive with no issues and was happy to do it.
He is the epitome of what it looks like when a man is all the way into you. Nothing is off limits for this woman with him- so much so, as I gave him advice, he began recording me so he could Share it with her.. lawd.. it was so refreshing to watch him!
He is a stark reminder to never give up on THE One that is meant for you. Search your own heart first though and check to see if your core values are in alignment or you may just let a gem walk away because they aren’t as tall
Or a different culture or dress corny.. what’s in the heart should be able to spring forth and bud if we only get out of our own way..
Dueces and mad love,